Check out this two-part post by Dr. Laurie Pearlman at the Headington Institute website.

http://headington-institute.net/wp/?p=1320

She not only gives clear warning signs, she also suggests in succinct form what you might try to DO about it. (Thanks to Gary Reed, writing in Team Expansion’s Member Care Newsletter, for the tip-off! Learn more about Gary’s work at www.MinistryCare.org )